Statistics on black and white dating
It's a familiar tactic of the prejudiced to make it seem like they are the victims of prejudice (like Glenn Beck saying Barack Obama hates white people in a recent interview lol).So I would always encourage people to ask themselves why someone is really saying this and if maybe there isn't at least some wariness on the part of a black father or grandmother or traditionalist (i.e.Does anyone really think every single black guy they meet or that tries to talk to a black woman is interested in a relationship? [It was the Beatles who sung "I Want To Hold Your Hand" while hip hop gives us "Til Sweat Drips From My Balls"] I just think this is a tactic used to make black women so (subconsciously) leery and paranoid about white men they don't really give them a chance. If you would have sex with a black guy after a week but want to hold out over paranoia of a white guy for months, it'll create distance, suspicion you don't really think white guys are all that attractive, and make us wonder where the relationship is even headed if you vastly preferred your past boyfriends enough to have sex with them so much sooner.None of that might be true, but it's how men might interpret it.
Tyler Perry is a fairly young guy and even he got it dead wrong by trafficking in ugly stereotypes in “The Family That Preys Together” In the US there are almost 10 percent more eligible black women than eligible black men, meaning that in an absolute best case, never going to happen scenario, if every single black woman got married to a black man tomorrow there would be nearly 10 percent not getting married.
I mean..you can't tell that some clean cut, Mormon, Matt Damon Jr.
lookalike is more of a monogamous guy than a guy named Antonio Bad Balla Williams bragging from the rooftops about his “swagga,” you're not being entirely honest with yourself. "A white guy won't marry you"--Judging by the statistic that 40 percent of black women in the US never get married, black guys won't either.
We shouldn't kid ourselves that black women have higher economic standards than white women or any race of women. "Black and White Children Won't Be Accepted" "Neither black people nor white people will fully accept interracial children"--Didn't hurt the current President.
He campaigned for both group's votes, got both group's votes, and is the first racial minority ever democratically elected President ANYwhere, not just the U. I'd say that kid that "would never be accepted by blacks or whites" did pretty okay being both.
I would never say that a few black women aren't proud gold diggers looking for the next Kobe Bryant or Ludacris when they cruise the partying circuit..so are some white women (ever watch that show Millionaire Matchmaker or Who Wants To Marry a Millionaire? And there's many women who aren't interested in these things just like not all guys are interested in casual sex.